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| Here you are finding yourself on an interracial dating website. What brought you here? It is your decision you took to look for your partner from another culture or another race. Why do you want to date interracially? There are two groups of people who date interracially. The first group of people are attracted to partners from another race. This group are rightly under the impression that partners from another race make the most committed partners in marriage. It is true, because science teaches us that the opposites attract. These people are bound to bond into a harmonious unit because they come from two different worlds. They want to learn and absorb everything about each other’s culture and traditions. It will take a life’s time to learn these things. Two people in this kind of interracial relationships are not bored at all. Their minds are stimulated all the time by the intrigues they find in each other. They value each other more. There is also this opportunity to learn a new language spoken by your partner. The offspring of partners from two different races are the most beautiful creatures of the human race. How does one come to a decision of wanting to date interracially? What influences a person to take that decision? Most people are sick and tired of the ill treatment they receive from partners of their race. This is a number one reason why people seek partners from another race. People always have a perception of the grass being greener at the other side. It is true the grass is green in interracial relationships. People are on their utmost good behaviour in such relationships. What could be perceived as negative behaviours in one race could be regarded as positive trends in another race. By nature all men are traditionalists. The role of a man in the Stone Age was to hunt for food and wife’s role was to take good care for the family. In the modern age we still hunt for food and we still need to take care for the family. But the roles of both man and woman are overlapping now. Women are hunters like men in the modern world especially the African women. Women are educated, they are employed, they run their own businesses and they bring food on the table. They bring in much needed financial assistance into the family. But yet most men still have to acknowledge this new role played by women today. Some men especially the western men have adapted over the years. European men find themselves in the kitchen cooking with their brides. Changing babies’ diapers is such a wonderful experience for the white men. Others especially the African men are still abiding by these Stone Age roles. They will not help their African women in the kitchen or help them doing the household chores. Period! But yet if they marry a white woman, they please her in every way she likes, even bringing her breakfast in bed! That’s why you find most people wanting to date or marry a partner from another race. Growing up, my mother when wanting favours from me, she would say I will give you an English man to marry you. I always wonder what was so nice about the English men that my mother wishes me to marry one of them! She worked as a maid for many different white community found in our country like the Germans, the Afrikaners (Dutch descendants) and the English. But hers was just a way of appreciating what the white men do for their families. Some people are purely curious. This group of people want to explore the feeling of dating someone from another race. This feeling is purely sexual. It is presumed interracial couple have a satisfying sexual relationship. Most white people think that black people make good sexual relationships. So they prefer to date black men or black women in order to have a good and satisfying sexual life. For black men or women it is something else. Due to the colonial history that affected the whole of Africa, black man intuitively admired the white woman on a distance. The black man admired her long beautiful hair and pale skin. The temptation was always great to date the white woman. For a black man to date a white woman was against the law in that colonial era. The black woman wants to build a harmonious and loving home for her family. Black women think that the white men are the better choice because of their wealth and honesty. Black women need a break from polygamy relationships that their black men offer them. The divorce rate among the white community is higher than in the black community. It is better to divorce than having to be involved with a partner you called a husband that has multiple sexual partners. That’s why black women seek to have relationships with white men because they offer security and a stable home environment. If you have contributions to make towards this topic,
go to http://myafrolove.com. Join us
and open your blog about this topic of dating across the race or
culturally. |
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